How and When Do You Choose the Right Career for You?
CAREERS – SUCH A WIDE RANGE OF POSSIBILITIES.
SO OFTEN WE GET LOST IN THE SEARCH – WE LOOSE THE PROSPECT OF FINDING OUT OUR SPECIAL SKILLS AND THE VISIBLE TALENTS WE HAVE.
1. IS MONEY THE DRIVING FORCE – CHOOSING THE CAREER?
2. WHEN DO WE KNOW THAT WE ARE WORKING IN THE RIGHT FIELD? WE CHOSE RIGHT!!!
3. IS OUR CAREER IMPACTING OUR HOME LIFE AND OUR SEX LIFE?
Indeed work is a major part of our lives. The average individual works 35-45 years in their lifetime AND THESE ARE THE FACTS:
1. So often money is the driving force choosing the career. It is an individual approach. Some people reach out as they say “closing the deal” the outcome of a certain career. How much money will I make if I do this…………And most importantly, what power will the money furnish the individual. What lifestyle can they live with that certain income provided with the choice. However if only money was the driven force, most likely the individual will not stay in that career for too long. Statistics shows that 2/3 of those individuals will get burned out, tired and fed up with that job, which looked to them so attractive and inviting at first. Choose the path of your passion and money will follow regardless.
2. We know that we picked the right career for us when we feel right about it. A certain sense of fulfillment with a touch of enjoyment and lightness will company the job. The individual will also stay in the field for a longer period of time and with less desire to switch and change careers.
However at times, one may choose a certain career early in life, be content and yet as they reach another level throughout the course they might swicth careers or relocate for an entirely different job or field. That is perfectly okay as long as they know clearly their WHY? and the change is the right fit for the time for their self worth and the family consideration.
We change in the course of our lives. Circumstances and challenges willl be presented and sometimes the opportunity is introducing a passage of growth and purpose. With wisdom and understanding we can change careers and become even more accomplished with the additional exposure and experience.
SOME people will stay at one job, one career for 30 years plus and then retire. It is okay for them and their personalities. Others will develop a passion and the desire to learn more, experience more, widen their horizons and in the process help others achieve their dreams. That is perfectly fine as well. iT FITS their personalities and style. Career choices is never one size fits all. It is a personal choice and an original unique observation.
3. IS OUR CAREER IMPACTING OUR HOME LIFE AND SEX LIFE?
ABSOLUTELY YES. An individual who loves and enjoys their career will enter their home with a sense of fulfillment. Even when they encounter more stress at work and long hours at the office, hospital, shop, etc. they will express less anger and more patience towards their partners and their children at home, overalll life. They will be calmer and more understanding and flow easier with obstacles. children.
Addressing SEX is a deeper angle. When the man or the woman feel appreciated at work. Finds great sense of accomplishments in their career. When they manifest a positive approach at the business place. When they have great people skills and the career is lifting them higher with time, indeed their sex life will be healthier, more often and they will be able to focus and stay in the moment more together and exclusively.
When a man or a woman is very unhappy at their job or they don’t work or frustrated looking for work their sex lives descends to an undesirable level.
Great people with the proper career fit can be great lovers. Only on temporary basis, sex can erase the worry or the stress or the let down of an unfulfilling career.
ANA WEBER WAS BORN IN ROMANIA. She lives in the United States since 1974. Her passion is to coach individuals and groups in all areas of relationships’ career, business, work, family, parents teens and time. Ana wrote several books on relationships; Dumped the ultimate guide to starting over, Lemons into Lemonade without the sugar and 11 step formula to bridge the gap between parents and teenagers.
www.anatherelationshipexpert.com
Author: Ana Weber
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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